Life so far...

Life so far is one heck of a ride. I have been reflecting lately that this year is not too good for me and my marriage. I know we are not perfect and trials has been testing us for the past few months. They say that from the moment you step in to your 4th year of marriage , trials are so hard to eliminate even if you try to avoid it. Its a cliche but i guess its true. The pain and sufferings will continue to arise once you tolerate a situation that is definitely intolerable! I say that communication is the key even just to alleviate the pain that is pile-ing up inside of you. Sometimes recent issues and situations that is experiencing in one's marriage is what the couple needs inorder to renew a stale and frigid marriage. The important thing is whenever a spouse senses something wrong in his/her spouse or in the marriage, they both have to talk and find a solution whatever problems that maybe. even small ones. The point is inorder to have a healthy and growing relationship, communication is always the key. I rest my case......



What a day!

I had a blast yesterday with my 3 of my closest friends! We have long been planned to have a "mother's day out" just the 4 of us and finally yesterday was the day. We had dinner at Pjoes at Limketkai and we talked about birth controls, giving birth, our children, friends and of course THE husbands =). Its quite hilarious to think that we have come to a stage that all we talk about was our experiences in our marriage.the do's and don'ts of it. Before, we used to talk about boyfriends, enemies, pre-marital sex, make-ups etc. hahay! those were the days!