Sometimes things happen for a reason
Last saturday night was an eye-opener for me and Jepjep. Here is our story:
I was waiting for Jepjep to come home that night. At about 10:40 pm, i received a text message. It was from Jepjep. His text message said: "Ma, na accidente ko. naa nko lnk 2 supprt atbang dal-a ang tools." I immediately called him to know if he was ok. and thank God he was.
I immediately rushed off to where he was and had this imagination of the car being so wrecked and all. But as i arrived at the spot, i was quite surprised that the car was still in shape but the 2 right mags were quite damaged. I found Jepjep sitting beside the wrecked wheels and was really livid. He kept telling me what happened and still was furious. In my thoughts, i was assuming that he was all in drama because sometimes he does the "drama act" once in a while. So, i wasn't listening to him and was really pissed off about the whole thing that i was screaming at him on the sidewalk with all the jeepneys passing by.We were both screaming at each other not realizing what he had been through. Finally, i calmed down and tried to sympathized with him. We went back to the area where the accident took place. There were a few people gathering on an injured person. As we got closer and asked them about the incident, we were quite shocked that the person's face was drenched with blood! He too was a victim of debris that were scattered all over the roadways 20 mins. after Jepjep's incident. Luckily, we were there to helped him and assist him to the hospital.
The night was an eye-opener for us. I for a fact had mixed emotions that night. Having the virtue of fortitude as part of my character, I broke down into tears infront of my hubby outside the hospital. I realized i was so wrong when i screamed at him and not trusting his every word. Shame on me for being so selfish and self-centered. He was also happy that he was still alive and still with us. He now realized the hardships we had been through for the last couple of months. He now understands why i always acted that way. And what made me cry after a heart to heart talk was when he said that me and Kiana are really his life. Everything he's doing now is for his family and family alone. He admitted that he was so driven with ambition and so prudent with the future that he forgot the real deal of what he was sacrificing for. The accident made him realize the importance of his family in his life. And thank GOD he's back! =)
I am so at peace with myself again for a very long time. After all the pain, hardships and suffering, i can now attest that these will all just pass along.
It came to me when i realized that, that man who was drenched with blood,was supposed to be Jepjep's blood if he wasn't quick enough to turn the wheel and probably hit on at the back of the truck. It gives me goosebumps whenever i recall that incident. It reminds me of the movie "Final Destination" wherein the accident of the former slides up to the latter. uuhhhhh!!!!GOD FORBID! SIMBAKO LANG!!!
I was waiting for Jepjep to come home that night. At about 10:40 pm, i received a text message. It was from Jepjep. His text message said: "Ma, na accidente ko. naa nko lnk 2 supprt atbang dal-a ang tools." I immediately called him to know if he was ok. and thank God he was.
I immediately rushed off to where he was and had this imagination of the car being so wrecked and all. But as i arrived at the spot, i was quite surprised that the car was still in shape but the 2 right mags were quite damaged. I found Jepjep sitting beside the wrecked wheels and was really livid. He kept telling me what happened and still was furious. In my thoughts, i was assuming that he was all in drama because sometimes he does the "drama act" once in a while. So, i wasn't listening to him and was really pissed off about the whole thing that i was screaming at him on the sidewalk with all the jeepneys passing by.We were both screaming at each other not realizing what he had been through. Finally, i calmed down and tried to sympathized with him. We went back to the area where the accident took place. There were a few people gathering on an injured person. As we got closer and asked them about the incident, we were quite shocked that the person's face was drenched with blood! He too was a victim of debris that were scattered all over the roadways 20 mins. after Jepjep's incident. Luckily, we were there to helped him and assist him to the hospital.
The night was an eye-opener for us. I for a fact had mixed emotions that night. Having the virtue of fortitude as part of my character, I broke down into tears infront of my hubby outside the hospital. I realized i was so wrong when i screamed at him and not trusting his every word. Shame on me for being so selfish and self-centered. He was also happy that he was still alive and still with us. He now realized the hardships we had been through for the last couple of months. He now understands why i always acted that way. And what made me cry after a heart to heart talk was when he said that me and Kiana are really his life. Everything he's doing now is for his family and family alone. He admitted that he was so driven with ambition and so prudent with the future that he forgot the real deal of what he was sacrificing for. The accident made him realize the importance of his family in his life. And thank GOD he's back! =)
I am so at peace with myself again for a very long time. After all the pain, hardships and suffering, i can now attest that these will all just pass along.
It came to me when i realized that, that man who was drenched with blood,was supposed to be Jepjep's blood if he wasn't quick enough to turn the wheel and probably hit on at the back of the truck. It gives me goosebumps whenever i recall that incident. It reminds me of the movie "Final Destination" wherein the accident of the former slides up to the latter. uuhhhhh!!!!GOD FORBID! SIMBAKO LANG!!!
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OMG KATT!!! that's very scary. but im glad jepjep is okay. and so are you. relak lang diha madz, ang heart!!! heheheheh!!!
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