Life so far...

Life so far is one heck of a ride. I have been reflecting lately that this year is not too good for me and my marriage. I know we are not perfect and trials has been testing us for the past few months. They say that from the moment you step in to your 4th year of marriage , trials are so hard to eliminate even if you try to avoid it. Its a cliche but i guess its true. The pain and sufferings will continue to arise once you tolerate a situation that is definitely intolerable! I say that communication is the key even just to alleviate the pain that is pile-ing up inside of you. Sometimes recent issues and situations that is experiencing in one's marriage is what the couple needs inorder to renew a stale and frigid marriage. The important thing is whenever a spouse senses something wrong in his/her spouse or in the marriage, they both have to talk and find a solution whatever problems that maybe. even small ones. The point is inorder to have a healthy and growing relationship, communication is always the key. I rest my case......



What a day!

I had a blast yesterday with my 3 of my closest friends! We have long been planned to have a "mother's day out" just the 4 of us and finally yesterday was the day. We had dinner at Pjoes at Limketkai and we talked about birth controls, giving birth, our children, friends and of course THE husbands =). Its quite hilarious to think that we have come to a stage that all we talk about was our experiences in our marriage.the do's and don'ts of it. Before, we used to talk about boyfriends, enemies, pre-marital sex, make-ups etc. hahay! those were the days!

Goodbye to a wonderful doctor

I just heard that my ob-gyne was killed last Saturday. I was really sad because she was a very good doctor, approachable and understanding. in short, i am very comfortable with her.In terms of her professional fee, it really was affordable so you won't complain after you got your services from her. I didn't give birth the normal way so we had to do ceasarian section. We only paid more than half of the standard price for the C-section! She was very negotiable too. I had goose bumps when i saw her on the local news yesterday, already in a coffin with her picture above. I heard it from my bestfriend first and she said it sounds like my doctor. so i really want to confirm it and then of course there it was on the news. Now, i have to look for another one.Someone nice and understanding like she was.

Mr.and Mrs.Smith

Mr. and Mrs. Smith, kudos to Brad and Angelina. This is the movie that started it all! I say they look good together even if they both deny that there is something more and deeper than their characters in the movie itself. it's sad to think that Brad and Jen ended their marriage but if passionate Pitt will really end up with the voluptuous Jolie,I should be thanking their taste for choosing a beauty so envious and not to mention delicious in the eye of the beholder =).
The movie is about 2 world class assassins who has a stale marriage. They both hid their real professions from each other until they were assigned to kill one another. Being married myself, it's funny to think that their marriage is so violent with all the "weapons of marriage destruction", i cannot imagine seeing my marriage like that lest the guns and daggers. and i don't think i can put up with a frigid,stale and hypocritical married life for five or six years later =). But in fairness, the movie is great and entertaining. Jepjep and I teasingly call each other, Mr and Mrs. Smith.

Random Life..

damn! everyday for the past few days, i have been wanting to blog. so many things have been happening to my life and wanting everyone to read about it and as usual gossip mongers tend to share slash backbite it to their friends. hehe. sad. but true. isn't it? :) but that's life. we cannot please everyone. anyways:

• Gadd! we finally saw Star Wars III: Revenge of the Sith( i love the title! gahi kaau! hehe). Now we know why Darth Vader wears the suit and helmet. Everytime a scene from Anakin and Padme enters, it's so touching eventhough some part of it is somewhat cheesy but still,i get teary eyed once in a while. especially to the fact why Anakin chose the dark side. like what Yoda said "twisted by the dark side, young Skywalker has become" . The Sith used Anakin's fear and anger to turn against the Republic and the Jedi council just to save Padme. In the movie, there is one thing i learned and that applies to humanity. I have learned that MOST BAD PEOPLE ALWAYS THINK THEY ARE GOOD PEOPLE. if you think about it, it really is true.
  
• We are so happy nowadays. we finally have a car. although, its second hand but still its so convenient especially now that we have a child, its part of a basic commodity for us. it's fuel efficient too.
• We just arrived from a 4 day vacation in Iligan. we needed to take a break and relax because Jeff is having his badging soon so when duty comes, it's gonna be tough and a quality time with the family will be tough also. As usual, whenever we are in Iligan, we play mahjong, badminton, watch DVD's, shop, and of course the everlasting UKAY-UKAY!!
• My daughter is so "maka-lingaw" na! sobra! she is very talkative and can't stop blabbering!Sometimes, we really have to be careful of what we say because she easily catches it up and make awat to everything she hears. especially the bad words so we are so careful with the cursing whenever she's around. Everyone is so fond of her. even strangers. I think her PR is to the extreme. talagang nag mana sa kanyang ama :) Whenever she did something bad, she would say sorry and hugs and kisses the person. She is so sweet. BUYAG LANG!I think so far Jepjep and I really raised her well. We make it to the point that whenever we are at home, we make sure to bond with her. She is also friendly with other kids and loves to be around with people. Whenever there is a family gathering, she is always the center of attention and the entertainer. If only i know how to put videos in blog, you too will get fond of her. :) it really takes your stress away.
  
• Mmmmm...what else? Oh, after graduation( PUHUN!), i am planning to take up the civil service exam so that i can join their Corruption.hehe.NOT!..but seriously, i am interested to work in the government. and hopefully, maybe next school year, i will take Professional Education so that when we get to immigrate abroad(puhun napud!God willing), i will be working as a teacher there. its the second job that is in demand to nursing you know:) but whatever and whenever it will be, God only knows what is best for us!
  

whew! that is it for now! i think im quite satisfied with what i have wrote :) Arrividerci!